When you bring a pet into your life, you begin a journey - a journey that will bring you more
love and devotion than you have ever known, yet also test your strength and courage. If you allow, the journey will teach
you many things, about life, about yourself, and most of all, about love. You will come away changed forever, for one soul
cannot touch another without leaving its mark.
Along the way, you will learn much about savoring life's simple pleasures
- jumping leaves, snoozing in the sun, the joys of puddles, and even the satisfaction of a good scratch behind the ears. Your
house will become muddier and hairier. You will wear less dark clothing and buy more lint rollers. You may find dog biscuits
in your pocket or purse, and feel the need to explain that an old plastic shopping bag adorns your living room rug because
your cat loves the crinkly sound.
You will learn the true measure of love - the steadfast, undying kind that says,
"It doesn't matter where we are or what we do, or how life treats us as long as we are together." Respect this always. It
is the most precious gift any living soul can give another. You will not find it often among the human race.
will learn humility. The look in my dog's eyes often made me feel ashamed. Such joy and love at my presence. She saw not some
flawed human who could be cross and stubborn, moody or rude, but only her wonderful companion. Or maybe she saw those things
and dismissed them as mere human foibles, not worth considering, and so chose to love me anyway.
If you pay attention
and learn well, when the journey is done, you will be not just be a better person, but the person your pet always knew you
to be - the one they were proud to call beloved friend.
I must caution you that this journey is not without pain.
Like all paths of true love, the pain is part of loving. For as surely as the sun sets, one day your dear animal companion
will follow a trail you cannot yet go down. And you will have to find the strength and love to let them go.
time on earth is far too short - especially for those that love them. We borrow them, really, just for awhile, and during
these brief years they are generous enough to give us all their love, every inch of their spirit and heart, until one day
there is nothing left.
The cat that only yesterday was a kitten is all too soon old and frail and sleeping in the
sun. The young pup of boundless energy wakes up stiff and lame, the muzzle now gray.
Deep down we somehow always knew
that this journey would end. We knew that if we gave our hearts they would be broken. But give them we must for it is all
they ask in return.
When the time comes, and the road curves ahead to a place we cannot see, we give one final
gift and let them run on ahead - young and whole once more. "Godspeed, good friend," we say, until our journey comes full
circle and our paths cross again.
Crystal Ward Kent